“Christmas is usually a time of joy and being together, but suddenly Russell’s cancer diagnosis was on everyone’s mind.” – Rowen’s experience

When Rowen’s stepdad, Russell, was diagnosed with prostate cancer just before Christmas, it cast a shadow over what was usually a joyful time of year.  

Now, Rowen from Sheffield is sharing her experience of that first Christmas after Russell’s diagnosis and how, thanks to early detection, this Christmas feels more hopeful.  

Rowen and her family are supporting the Yorkshire Cancer Research “For More Christmases Together” Fundraising Appeal, raising awareness of the need to fund cancer research in Yorkshire, so families and friends can share more precious moments together. 

As one of four grown-up children Russell and his partner Helen have between them, Rowen felt the impact of his diagnosis deeply, as did her siblings Ross, Lois and Alex.

Rowen said: “When we found out about Russell’s cancer, it was just before Christmas. That time of year is usually filled with joy and being together, but suddenly his diagnosis was on everyone’s mind. We didn’t know what was going to happen, and that uncertainty was incredibly hard.” 

Every day, 85 people in Yorkshire are told they have cancer. Even at Christmas, too many families are facing uncertainty and worry, just like Rowen’s family did. With the support of people in Yorkshire, Yorkshire Cancer Research funds pioneering cancer treatments and ground-breaking clinical trials that help keep loved ones together, for longer.  

Despite the difficult news, Rowen and her family rallied around Russell, doing their best to stay calm and supportive while they waited for more information.   

Because Russell’s cancer was found early, he was able to access to a range of treatment options. His consultant, Professor Jim Catto, explained these options to him and how the early detection of his cancer would improve the effectiveness and outcomes of his treatment. Jim is one of 750 researchers and cancer experts working with Yorkshire Cancer Research to find new and better ways to prevent, diagnose and treat cancer in Yorkshire.  

Rowen said: “Russell chose a type of radiotherapy treatment called brachytherapy which, thankfully, didn’t make him too poorly and meant he was still able to continue running his business. From the hospital appointments to the side-effects of his treatment, he's taken it in his stride and is still the same happy-go-lucky, endlessly helpful man we’ve always known and loved.”

Rowen said: “What makes me even prouder is how Russell has chosen to use his experience to help others. He’s been raising awareness of Yorkshire Cancer Research and encouraging other men to get tested. That’s just so ‘Russell’ - turning something difficult into something positive.” 

This Christmas feels different for Rowen and her family. They’re looking forward to spending Christmas all together, knowing Russell has had treatment and hopeful for a positive outcome. Rowen is also expecting her first child in March, meaning Russell will soon be a granddad for the fourth time. 

Rowen concluded: “Moments like these are only possible because of research. Russell had access to innovative treatment options, and it’s thanks to people in Yorkshire who help fund research right here in Yorkshire.

“I hope that by hearing about our family’s experience, people feel inspired to support the Yorkshire Cancer Research Christmas Appeal. Your donation could help someone else’s dad, brother or friend get the care they need – just like Russell.”

Over 2,600* people in Yorkshire will be told they have cancer this Christmas. Help fund vital cancer research and give people the greatest gift of all – more time together.

^{*Estimate for December 2025. Every month, 2,636 people in Yorkshire are told they have cancer.}